By Amanda Held
The essential joy of being with horses is that it brings us in contact with the rare elements of grace, beauty, spirit, and freedom." - Sharon Ralls Lemon
In a world filled with instant gratification and quick fixes, it's easy to overlook the profound impact of building genuine connections and trust, especially in our animal interactions. For the past six months, my journey with Gypsy, a wild Mustang, has demonstrated the remarkable power of connection-based horsemanship techniques in fostering trust, confidence, and curiosity.
The Science Behind Trust-Based Approach
Traditional animal training often involves desensitizing animals to various stimuli to mitigate their reactions. However, recent research in animal behavior and cognitive science emphasizes the significance of trust and understanding in shaping positive relationships. Horses, like humans, possess complex social and emotional intelligence. They can discern human intentions, sense emotions, and form deep bonds.
Nova, a beautiful wild mustang, entered my life as an uncharted territory of possibilities. Instead of overwhelming her with desensitization exercises, I embarked on a journey of patient relationship-building. Scientific studies have shown that trust and cooperation trigger the release of oxytocin, a hormone associated with bonding and social connection. Acknowledging this biochemical aspect, I aimed to create an environment where Gypsy felt secure, valued, and willing to explore.
The Evolution of Trust
During the initial weeks, our interactions were unassuming yet profound. I spent time near Nova, allowing her to observe me without any pressure. Through mirroring her movements and behaviors, I communicated my intentions as a supportive herd member. Gradually, she exhibited signs of curiosity and approached me cautiously. Each step forward affirmed the power of patience and empathy.
As our rapport deepened, I introduced activities that engaged Nova's cognitive faculties while honoring her innate instincts. Horses possess a heightened sense of awareness due to their survival instincts. Instead of suppressing this trait, I harnessed it by introducing novel stimuli like the hula hoop. And the magic began.
The Unexpected Bond with the Hula Hoop
Last week marked a turning point in our journey. I introduced Gypsy to a hula hoop, uncertain of her reaction. To my delight, her curiosity prevailed. Nova approached the hula hoop, examining it closely and even nudging it gently with her nose.
The most astonishing part was her comfort as I hula-hooped right beside her. Without prior desensitization, Nova embraced the hoop's presence and my actions.
The scientific literature on animal cognition highlights that genuine positive experiences lead to oxytocin release, enhancing trust and bonding. This newfound trust between Gypsy and me wasn't rooted in fear or suppression; it blossomed from
authentic curiosity and mutual understanding. Our approach, centered on connection, allowed Nova to explore with confidence, even in the face of novelty.
In a world often dominated by immediate outcomes, Nova's journey is a poignant reminder of the enduring impact of cultivating patient, trust-based relationships. As Sharon Ralls Lemon eloquently stated, being with horses introduces us to elements of grace, beauty, spirit, and freedom. Let's treasure these moments and work towards a world where trust triumphs over desensitization.
Join the Conversation
Thank you for taking the time to read this post! I'd love to hear your thoughts, questions, or experiences—feel free to share them in the comments below. If you found this blog helpful, please share it with fellow equestrians who might benefit from these insights. Together, we can build a more compassionate and connected equine community! 🐴✨
Connect
If you're inspired to deepen your connection with your horse and explore more tools for harmony and growth, click here to join our FREE Equine Wisdom Institute community on Skool! It's a supportive space for like-minded equestrians to share, learn, and grow together on this incredible journey with our equine partners.
Join our list!
Click here to be notified of new blogs, trainings, and upcoming events.
Comments