Are Horses Evolving Emotionally?
- Amanda Held
- May 2
- 6 min read
Exploring the Neuroscience, Behavior, and Spirit of the HumanโHorse Bond

The Thought Provoking Question
Not long ago, a community member in my Skool group asked a question that stayed with me, โ๐ฟ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ค๐ง๐จ๐๐จ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ซ๐ค๐ก๐ซ๐๐ฃ๐?โ At first, I paused. Evolution is such a weighty word and we tend to think of it as something that happens slowly, over millennia.
But then I read a piece on how ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ด๐ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฎ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ ๐๐๐ฎ๐ด๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ฒ๐บ๐ผ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ฎ๐น ๐ฒ๐๐ผ๐น๐๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป, shaped by modern human relationships. That article changed how I saw the question entirely. (Read full article here)
It made me wonder, if dogs can evolve through emotional closeness and companionship, could the same be happening to horses?
In this blog, weโll explore:
What science is saying about dogs and emotional evolution
The changing role of horses in human society
Real-world examples of horses demonstrating emotional intelligence
Spiritual reflections on horses as healers and co-regulators
What this all means for our future with them
The Emotional Evolution of Dogs
Dogs were domesticated over 15,000 years ago, originally for tasks like hunting and guarding. But something incredible has happened in the last century: most dogs are now ๐ฒ๐บ๐ผ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ฎ๐น ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ป๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ โ sleeping on our beds, comforting our children, sensing when weโre sad.
This isnโt just anecdotal.
In a study by Nagasawa et al. (2015), researchers found that mutual gazing between dogs and their humans ๐ถ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ผ๐ ๐๐๐ผ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ป levels in both โ the same chemical responsible for bonding between mothers and infants. Dogs, it turns out, have adapted neurologically and behaviorally to seek emotional connection. Brian Hare and Vanessa Woods (2020) call this the โ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ฟ๐ฑ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐๐๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป.โ
Itโs not just tameness or utility โ itโs ๐ฒ๐บ๐ผ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ฎ๐น ๐ฎ๐๐๐๐ป๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐. Dogs are now being selected for their ability to read emotions, follow eye contact, and remain calm under stress โ especially in service dog breeding programs. Some scientists believe we are shaping an entirely new emotional phenotype in dogs โ animals genetically predisposed to love us.
The Changing Role of Horses
Letโs contrast that with horses. For thousands of years, horses were tools: plows, wagons, cavalry. They were valued for physical traits โ strength, obedience, speed. A "good" horse was one that performed, not one that connected.
But now? Most horses are no longer needed for survival. They are companions, sport partners, therapy animals, teachers, and healers.
Equine-assisted therapy is growing rapidly across healthcare, addiction recovery, and trauma healing fields.
Liberty work, groundwork, and energy-based horsemanship are replacing dominance-based methods.
Horse-human connection is being valued on a ๐๐ฝ๐ถ๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐๐ฎ๐น ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ฒ๐บ๐ผ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ฎ๐น level, not just a functional one.
Weโve stopped asking horses to pull us through war and started asking them to walk beside us through grief.
If we are shifting how we choose, breed, and relate to horses โ could that be shaping them too?
Real-World Examples of Equine Emotional Intelligence
Iโve witnessed things in the round pen that science hasnโt yet fully explained.
A Veteran and a Mustang
One moment Iโll never forget involved a veteran (will call him Robert). He had survived an attempted suicide, and arrived at one of our HOOVES healing intensives guarded and withdrawn. For the first two days, he stood stiff and silent outside the round pen, paired with a wild mustang named Montana โ a horse who had been through his own trauma.
On the third day, something in Robert softened. He shared his story in group work, allowing the grief to surface.
That afternoon, he returned to the round pen. This time, ๐ ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฎ ๐๐ฎ๐น๐ธ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐น๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ต๐ถ๐บ, placed his forehead on Robertโs chest, and stood still. No cue. No halter. Just presence.
Robert collapsed into tears. It was not training. It was recognition.
What the Science Says About Horses
While horses havenโt been studied as extensively as dogs in terms of neurochemistry, the research we do have is powerful.
Memory and Emotion
In 2018, Proops et al. showed that horses not only recognize human facial expressions but also ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐บ. When a horse saw a photo of a person smiling or frowning, and then met that person later with a neutral expression, it reacted differently โ more relaxed or more guarded โ based on the memory.
Mirroring and Co-regulation
Horses donโt just read emotions โ they mirror them. Merkies et al. (2013) found that horses matched the emotional states of their handlers. Anxious humans led to anxious horses. Calm humans led to calm, connected movement.
In therapy settings, this goes even deeper. Gehrke et al. (2011) recorded ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ถ๐น๐ถ๐๐ (HRV) in horses and humans during sessions and found moments of ๐ฝ๐ต๐๐๐ถ๐ผ๐น๐ผ๐ด๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐น ๐๐๐ป๐ฐ๐ต๐ฟ๐ผ๐ป๐ถ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป โ evidence of co-regulation.
Communication and Problem Solving
Malavasi & Huber (2016) demonstrated that horses use ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ฎ๐น ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐บ๐๐ป๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป with humans. When faced with an unsolvable task, they didnโt just get frustrated โ they looked to the human for help, switching between the problem and the person, much like a dog or child would.
Selection and Environmental Shaping
While most horses arenโt bred as selectively for emotion as service dogs, selection still plays a role.
Therapeutic riding centers choose calm, emotionally regulated horses
Liberty trainers favor horses that are intuitive and willing
Breeding programs increasingly prioritize temperament, not just conformation
And then thereโs ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐ถ๐ด๐ฒ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐ถ๐ฐ๐ โ the study of how environment influences gene expression. Horses raised in emotionally safe, connected environments may be ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐ฟ๐ผ๐น๐ผ๐ด๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ ๐๐ถ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฑ to relate differently than those raised in fear or force (Zayan & Boissy, 2006).
We may not be deliberately evolving horses for emotional depth โ but through who we reward, how we breed, and the spaces we create โ we are shaping it.
Horses as Mirrors and Spiritual Guides
Thereโs a reason horses are considered mirrors of the soul. They are prey animals โ wired to read subtle shifts in energy. But they are also herd animals โ wired to co-regulate for the safety of the group. This gives horses a profound gift: They donโt just respond to what you do. They respond to who you are.
Thatโs why people break down crying in round pens. Itโs not about technique. Itโs about ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ด๐ฒ๐๐ถ๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐ด๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ โ when your body finally tells the truth your mouth wonโt say.
And the horse knows.
So... Are Horses Evolving?
Yes. I believe they are โ not identically to dogs, but in a parallel path.
The shift from warhorse to therapy horse is not just external โ it is internal. As we invite horses into spaces of healing and presence, they are rising to meet us.
Some of this may be behavioral.Some may be biological.Some may be spiritual.
But one thing is clear, ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ฎ๐บ๐ฒ ๐ต๐ผ๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ ๐ฎ๐ด๐ผ. And we are not the same people.
We are evolving together.
Final Reflection
If we are co-evolving with our horses, we are no longer just their trainers or riders. We are their stewards. Their partners. Their reflection.
So we must ask ourselves:
Are we training horses with the same emotional integrity we ask of them?
Are we willing to do the inner work so our presence feels safe to them?
Are we listening as deeply as they are?
Because if horses are evolving to feel more, sense more, and connect more โwe are being called to evolve right alongside them.
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Supporting Research
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Hare, B., & Woods, V. (2020). Survival of the Friendliest: Understanding Our Origins and Rediscovering Our Common Humanity. Random House.
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Merkies, K., McKechnie, M. J., Zakrajsek, E., MacGregor, H., Bergeron, R., & Hodgen, J. (2013). The effects of emotional congruence between humans and horses during groundwork. Journal of Equine Veterinary Science, 33(12), 1073โ1080. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jevs.2013.03.008
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Totally agree with you, we are on the path to ascention with our equine and canine partners. How refreshing to know weโre in this together!